MaximumBunny: More like you have fanatics/extremists to worry about to build up any sort of momentum to get anything going. How can countries like yours reach the place you want to be at? Is there anything internationally that we can do to allow you to speak freely and raise awareness/support? And how would you be able to make these things from just an opinion of some of the people into the law of all of the people?
This is also something that would help other countries in similar predicaments. I'm just not quite sure how it can be accomplished without a "come in and remove the ones stopping us" if speaking out in Ghandi fashion would just lead to more executions and imprisonment rather than change. I'm hoping I just don't understand the situation enough and that you really have the options for political discourse amongst each other.
The "quick" solution you're wanting would probably be a military dictatorship. It's happened a couple of times in the past, (although one of the times is what got Pakistan on this extremism road in the first place).
However, as I said, education really is a proper, long-term solution. It'll combat the extremism (usually recruited from the ignorant anyhow), the poverty, the illiteracy, etc.