Not my business, but Unreal_NeoX wasn't mean to you, he was being practical.
In general, if you want help, you need to post as much information about your issue as possible. That means a link to the exact mod (not just the name, and expect others to google the name just to find a mod they don't have an issue with) and a description of the issue you have. It is your job to provide as much information about the question you have in order to make it as easy as possible for others to find the answer you seek. Be polite, that is basic netiquette.
Also, using and even installing mods can be a finicky and complicated process (looking at you, Cyberpunk 2077). Some mods have automated installers attached to them (usually .bat or .exe) but some are fully manual, where you have to find the right version of the mod, together with the right version of the framework that mod is based on, and both have to match whatever version of the game you are playing on. And everything have to be placed in a very specific place inside the game install directory.
And believe me, mods more often than not is trial and error and a lot of time spent googling the various issues that can happen. So if you want help, showing you have really tried on your own first will more likely get people to do more effort in helping you.
So please try one more time, starting by posting a link to the exact mod you have a problem with, and I am certain NeoX will sort out your issue.
P.s.
It also helps to be humble when having problems. Saying everyone was mean to you is not the way to go. And when it comes to anything SpellForce, Unreal_NeoX is the one who can help.