darkness58ec: Interesting to hear a newcomer also thought Triss was handled oddly. Do you feel like the romantic choice was adequately presented, knowing almost nothing about Triss and Geralt's prior relationship? (Triss and Geralt are a consistent theme in W2, btw.)
I was so steeped in Witcher lore that I couldn't tell if someone new to the series would know enough going into W3. What helped you be introduced to the lore most, do you think? After playing W1 and W2, I certainly didn't feel like I got many scenes which were undisguised exposition about things Geralt would already know.
To clarify, I had never read any of the books, and I was a newcomer to the games, but I had read on at least a few forums that Geralt and Triss had a strong relationship prior to the events of W3, and I had watched a 10-minute YouTube video that gave a high level summary of the W1 and W2 games so that I didn't go into W3 completely blind. While I wouldn't say that made me comfortably familiar with Witcher lore or character relationships by any stretch, it would be misleading to say I was diving in COMPLETELY cold.
***SPOILERS BELOW***
I have several issues with the way the Triss romance path was handled, but considering the game's non-linear progression, particularly with respect to side quests, I can't blame CDPR for this entirely, though some of the fault does lie with them in my opinion. Obviously, people have different play styles and choose different ways of completing a game like this. I'm more of an OCD completionist--I like to see everything in the game and I tend to tackle quests as soon as I receive them, rather than progressing the main story and coming back to them later. That's not CDPR's fault, but by doing this, I completed all of Triss' quests (save for Blindingly Obvious) and made my choice before I even met up with Yen in Skellige. I didn't particularly like that the game even let me do that; it wouldn't have been a problem if the final romance choice had been presented in a quest closer to the end of the game, or if Triss played more than a cameo role after Novigrad. I wanted more out of my relationship with Triss than a "Well?" and an aloof "Good luck" before I marched off to face the Wild Hunt.
The presentation of the romantic choice itself was fine--I knew that saying "I love you" was committing me to Triss, and I had no problem with that since I genuinely liked her character, but of course I was also thinking "Hm, I wonder what Yennefer is like." I guess I just didn't expect to to have to make the choice so soon. I knew that one of the series' most talked about features was that decisions actually have ramifications, so I knew I couldn't say I love you to both Triss and Yen and expect to have a happy ending with both. So, I was fully committed to Triss--she was brave, noble, selfless (I hear that's not necessarily the case in the books, but I'm just going off the games here), and certainly not hard on the eyes (though Yen is definitely a looker herself). After the Matter of Life and Death quest, I was sold on Triss. This decision was validated at the ligthouse when she talked about the future with Geralt.
My biggest problem, and I know this has been covered ad infinitum, goes back to Triss' absence from the second half of the game. Even if you pick her, the last two Acts become "the adventures of Geralt and Yennefer," and it is so much more rewarding if the player chooses Yen. My perfect build of the game would have had Triss take Yen's place (to the extent appropriate, considering the Geralt/Yen/Ciri relationship) in the later missions if you choose her, rather than reduce her to scenery with one word of dialogue.