anomaly: I was just looking at this very topic earlier today, and came across these. The second is a pay to use GUI for £10, and looks quite swish, but the first is from SourceForge and so free:
Game Launcher (Source Forge) Photon Game Manager GameLauncher is the software I wrote in my original thread that installed all sorts of unwanted software before even launching the actual GameLauncher installer. It was borderline spyware, which is strange considering it's offered on sourceforge.
Rainmeter is definitely the most promising solution I have found but I did notice a weird thing; it prevents your PC from 'idling' and keeps your monitor active. I did not fool around with it too much, so I didn't give much of a chance.
Photon Game Launcher was definitely up there, but the 10$ price point wasn't my forte. I checked and installed it and did not like most of what I saw. It didn't pick up my STEAM folder even though it's one of its features. Go figure.
Meagre seems like something I might be needing to test.
Thanks for all the advice guys. I haven't posted much on the forums here, but I think I may start.
I'll keep an eye out and try posting what I've done (after my moving from this house into another)
PEACE