langurmonkey: I've been to Poland. All the girls I encountered, didn't speak English and I only knew several words of Polish. It's hard to impress a woman without speaking her language. :(
Back in my days we'd been taught it since third grade, primary school, and since then it's been moved to first grade. The people you met were morons -_-.
As far as I can tell, one has the best chances in university cities and tourist destinations... which is where I'm at ;P.
langurmonkey: Beautiful country(the land) but a lot of buildings there are ugly, no offense.
Oh, you've seen Warsaw ^^'...
langurmonkey: If I wasn't so lucky in Szczecin, I'd probably be trapped and homeless in Poland right now...a funny story for you, I bet.
Actually - this sounds like one hell of an anecdote...
gamefreak1972: ...keep in mind she was in a "safe" place, talking to friends, not waxing poetic online about her love for Gothic.
I kept thinking about this... What WOULD be an unsafe place? Is it only the Internet? Who would the hostility be coming from - other women or men?
As another anecdote - my ex-roommate's attractiveness at a party went from "kinda ugly" to "center of attention" once she mentioned playing Starcraft... No definite info on how drunk everyone involved was, but (as far as I've heard) the reactions were unanimously positive.
Hell - maybe it has
something to do with the iron curtain?
AFnord: You should visit Sweden then. Not too long ago I spent an entire lunch break at my uni talking about Morrowind mods with some girls there, and the day before that I talked about Age of Empires 2 and viable strategies with another girl. Girls who play video games are incredibly common over here.
And they'd probably speak English with both the finesse and pronunciation I was so envious of in our exchange students *_*...
For a moment I felt somewhat guilty of derailing, and then it occured to me that the thread is basically "Hey (geek guys)! There are geek GIRLS!". "How can we get our hands on them?" is only a natural reaction ;P...
StingingVelvet: Though honestly even that is a question, isn't it? Once you accept gender roles are social constructs you begin to debate when that is bad and when it is good.
Unless one falls into depths of "anthropological relativism", at which point there is no longer any overarching "good" or "bad", and if a given society is into some particular form of mutilation or persecution, that's just "the way they are" and it would be unjust to try and deprive them of their heritage ;P.
On the other hand - "cultural universals", I've heard, are a dirty word...
Meanwhile:
Jenny Haniver.