tejozaszaszas: That depends on how "good" she is, if the number of victories/loses is somehow balanced It use to help to get in the mood. Of course, I never play chess with her :-p
Well, I'm a gamer, she's not. So for now, it looks like the win/loose balance is even at a start. But when I get to know a game better, I think I use my experience with video games to develop tactics, think ahead, etc and I start winning every single game.
It's not that fun. I'm not playing to win, but I can't give handicaps to her, because that would make it even less entertaining :P
1vs1 games are cool. I like them, but they require people on very even levels to be most fun.
Although in games that require some general knowledge or smarts, like Scrabble, I fail horribly :P I'm better in tactical games.